“Iwouldsaythemaindifferenceisthatyouhaven’tbeentoldsinceyouwere11thateverymaleyouencounterhasthepotentialtorapeandmurderyou.Followedbyalifeofpre-sexualization,cat-callingandslut-shamingthatfillsyouwithsomuchguiltandfearthatwhenyou’re16andsomekidstartschokingyouduringsex,eitherwithhishandorwithhispenis,‘causehesawitinabunchofporn.Youassumeitmustbeyouwhogotitwrong.So,everytimethere’saninappropriatecommentorahandonyourthigh,youswallowit.Untilonedaytheworldsays,‘Hey,acutally,maybeallthatcrapisn’tyourfault,’andthereliefissogreatthatshitjustpoursoutofyoulikeatsunami.And,yes,likemosttsunamisinnocentpeopledrown.But,Iamsorrythatyou’vehadtodealwithwomenyoudidn’tdeemattractiveenough,grabbingyourass.Iappreciatethelifehasitschallenges.”